Many are the times the term soul mate is associated with visions of mystic astrological readings and reincarnation. You can have a soul mate even without having any supernatural beliefs. The practical definition of a soul mate is someone who lights a fire inside of you. He should be someone who shares your view about the world and who you love unequivocally. How can you grade your partner? Can he/she be termed as “nice” to you? Watch out for the following things to know if he is indeed the one. To begin with, would you consider your lover as your best friend? If you are the type of couples who discuss only the subjects that interests you two, you might be missing something. You might claim that you share a sense of belonging while you have another best friend. This means there is a role he does not play but you do not realize it.
He is your real soul mate if you feel that nobody else in the whole world offers you the kind of companionship that he does. If he likes it when you hang out in groups you need to focus else where. To actually assess who your soul mate is, you have to lay down your ideas about a perfect man. Some women think that an ideal man is the one who cooks, comes home early, sings and so much more. Others Just need someone who loves them and offers guaranteed security. That is fine especially if he shares your world views and understands you deeply. He is your soul mate. Your parents have the wisdom of identifying a real soul mate. If your mum finds it hard to understand your man, you better take caution. If she thinks he is ideal for you and he will make you happy, trust her opinion, she understands men better.
Your soul mate should be involved in your social activities as much as possible. May be you were used to going out often before you met him but now that you are lovers your preference has changed to just watching movies in the house together or doing something else low-key. If this is the case you were lucky to meet your soul mate. Otherwise if your guy is eager to hear you recounting your fun activities since you did not go for adventures together, he might not be all that to you. It is even worse if you meet in bed at night. How would you describe your sex life? Sex with your soul mate should get better with each and every occurrence. Soul mates connect in both mind and body. To some unlucky people their sexual encounters seem to last the whole day. Others who are just respectable friends have consistent and more comfortable sex life.
To know for sure that a man is your soul mate you have to be keen on what he is fond of talking about. Some usually talk about their activities in the work place, discuss an article he saw on the paper and that is all. Others talk about politics, books, and almost everything including Partying, sex and drinking. Such a person is a good soul mate since he feels comfortable with you. He is an open book to read and you can easily tell when something goes amiss. If you forced a relationship to work it will never succeed. If you just ended up dating but you did not force, you have a long good life together with your soul mate.