This is a *personal* question for you. I want to get your personal input and point of view.
Historically Lilith is a demon, with a reputation for killing children. Even in her earliest conception she is a malevolent spirit of the night that harms preganant women, children, and is sexually predotory towards men.
I’m pretty sure many, especially those in New Age/Neopaganism, have heard their fair share of contradicting stories about her. Many often Romantize Lilith (Thank you, Dante Gabriel Rossetti.) and omit and ignore many facest of negetivity in her personality. This is all modern work by the way. The *real* Lilith is quite harmful and malevolent towards humanity.
Furthermore, what do you think of Lilith being a aspect of the Goddess? (I.e. the same as Ishtar, Isis, Kali etc) Its quite funny to me, because at the roots of Neopaganism Lilith was seperate from “the Goddess”? And what about the feminist interpetation? Wouldn’t believing in her as Adam’s wife admitting to God?