Article by Scott Petullo & Stephen Petullo
Prior to years of comprehensive study and constant objective
empirical research through ancient metaphysical delineation
and predictive sciences (since 1992 involving the numerology
and astrology charts of over 20,000 different people), we too
mistakenly believed we could create anything our ego-selves
desired. Our studies and research allow us to conclude that an
extremely high percentage of everyone’s major life circumstances
and particulars are unavoidably etched in the rock of fate.
We consistently and accurately outline key conditions and
experiences in anyone’s future (provided we have all birth
data) including “gurus” who claim they are able to “consciously
create” 100% of their realities, matching their conscious
demands, as they live their lives.
Once you have witnessed, as we have, the continual recurrence
of patterns in the numerology and astrology charts completely
representing situations in peoples’ lives, you will stop
rejecting the idea of fate.
An ideal love life, unlimited financial abundance, perfect
health, constantly harmonious personal relationships and more
would be nice, but we are now entirely certain that it “ain’t
gonna happen” if it’s not part of the path that your soul mapped
out before you incarnated.
For example, despite what you might see on TV about finding
a compatible romantic partner, like the best-selling author
promoting her book about finding the perfect husband in less
than a year (“I did it and you can too!”), everyone’s karma is
different and what works for one person (because it fits his/her
karmic blueprint) may fail for the next (being outside of his/her
“Learn valuable lessons about commitment and betrayal by
experiencing a difficult spouse? Forget it! Instead, I’ll
create the perfect relationship!” “Endure a period of financial
limitations to learn about financial acumen? Nah, I’ll create
infinite abundance now and forever live the high life!”
Unfortunately (for the ego-self), the universe doesn’t work
that way. Dodging your fate isn’t an option.
But let’s not forget free will. You have free will to take the
right action at the right time, allow your earthly personality
to play its role in manifesting your destiny (including your
ego-self desires that align with it), react to your life
circumstances, and improve and influence your situation to
the best of your ability within the confines of your fate.
Along these lines, free will also enables everyone to help
shape their future lives through every thought, intent, and
action in their present lives.
If you want an ideal as possible relationship, you can exercise
your free will and do things to prepare for this. However, we
believe that even doing what feels right feels right because it’s
part of your pre-destined path. You could do something that
isn’t part of your earthly plan, such as drop out of society,
move to the wilderness and live off the land, but you probably
wouldn’t because it doesn’t feel right for you to do.
Perhaps most importantly, it would be nice if we could all
have “perfect love,” but this would miss the objective of the
majority of our relationships on earth: personal growth. A
predetermined degree of challenge is necessary in order to
learn the lessons for which we incarnate.
As far as releasing your love karma through spiritual exercises,
this sounds like wishful, spiritual woo-woo thinking to us.
The only exercise we know of to do this is the exercise of
experiencing what you need to experience in real life. In other
words, forget the notion of being able to cheat fate, despite the
fact that most “love experts” suggest otherwise. We caution you
to be skeptical of spiritual solutions that appear to be quick
The good news is that you can ease, but not evade, your karma
by acceptance, forgiveness, and unconditional love. For instance,
you can’t erase the lifelong disharmony between you and your
siblings, but you can lighten the load by how you view and react
Although not always easy, the best methods toward personal
and spiritual growth include the following: achieve self-
awareness so that you understand your highest path; take the
right action at the right time to manifest your destiny; embrace
all personal challenges including all difficult people as a
necessary part of the growth process; forgive yourself and all
others; love yourself and all others unconditionally; live your
life knowing that all energy you put out will eventually come
back to you; and know that you can’t always get what you want,
but that every experience serves a valuable purpose.